3 Ways to Add Value To Someone Else

In my last post I talked about how success is for you but its not for you. In this post I want to share some practical ways that we can add value to someone else’s life.


As kids we are taught to treat people the way we want to be treated–the golden rule. If you were a teenager or young adult, how would you want to be treated?

With respect? Yes. With loving care? Most definitely!

The reason why these two stick out the most to me is because I benefited greatly from individuals who I respected and treated me with respect and loving care.

Studies show that young people fall for the social ills like drugs, promiscuity and gangs because they’re desperately yearning for respect and to feel cared for.

Below are 3 practical ways you can impact a teen or young adult in life altering ways:

  • Coaching: Coaching includes everything from simply coaching a team or helping with homework for teens to focused life or job coaching for young adults. The key here is leveraging your expertise to help the individual excel in that area.
  • Doing Life: I personally love this approach because it takes little-to-no effort, only maybe a phone call and picking someone up. I remember my mentors were always open to me hanging out with them. If they had an event to be at, they invited me. If they were home watching the game on a Sunday, I was welcome to stop by. Doing life, is inviting someone into your real life. With this, there is no formal plan.
  • Connecting: This approach leverages your connections. There are many teens and young adults that just need an “in”. You may not be an expert in an area but I am sure you know someone who is. A great way to add value to someone’s life is connecting that person to the right source that will position them for success!

Let’s make 2014 the year of the underdog by adding value to the young unrelenting optimists who are one step away from realizing their own success.

These are the areas that worked for me and so many around me. What worked for you?

Question: What would you add to this list? Leave your thoughts in the comments below!

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